People
has special thing in this life, called mind (the ability of thinking). By this
ability, people realize about their own self, who they are, and what they will
do. People are able to think if it is good to be done or not. And the good
things have arranged in this life named ethics.
As we know that ethics is the
main branch of philosophy that studies the value of moral in daily life. The behavior
of people will be affected by ethics that they’re learned. That’s why ethics
becomes the important thing to be known by all people.
This
paper will tell the reader a little thing about the violence of ethics and we
will focus on communication point of view. Remembering that communication is
the activity that people always do wherever and whenever they are, we must
certainly know about the ethics that we have to be followed to make a good
interaction with the others.
Communication
as the important thing to full their need and the way to reach success also has
an ethics that arrange the way to be good. But, there is many things that make
the ethics were broken. They are:
1. People
says every thing with everyone without think about the place when they’re talking,
the situation when talk, and the age of their friend. So they forget to choose
the correct sentence to show the politeness. This is the kind of violence
because factually, we have to care about the things that are mentioned above to
create a good interaction and follow the ethics rules.
2. People
do not show their fairness when they are in the middle of one problems. It also
breaks the ethics of communication that is said by Karl Wallace Johannesen
(1996). He said that the communicator
has to grow up their fairness when choosing the fact or opinion openly.
Communication cannot be defined on one side only because he has to able to evaluate
all of the side.
3. People
just want to be heard without hearing the others. This thing is one of breaking
the ethics that is also said by Karl Wallace Johannesen (1996). Johannesen said that the communicator also has
to be hearer to respect the other expression and the ideas.
4. People
do not say the truth when they are talking. It breaks the communication ethics
that is said by Rakhmat (1993). He said that the communicator has to honest
when saying everything. He also said that it is from Al-Qur’an that people has
to have the Qaulan Sadidan principle.
5. People
talk about something that is not feasible to be talked. This breaks the ethics
too because something that is not need to be the public consumption should not
be discussed.
These
are some violence of ethics in direct communication that breaks the ethics
itself. The point is how people keep their value of moral to keep the ethics’
values. Moreover the direct communication ethics has to defend to show that we
are people with the best behavior.
